Everyone is doing the best they can...
No one else wakes up as you each and every single day. Only you know whether you slept well or not. Only you can remember your dreams each morning.
Your life story belongs to you and only you. No one else has the same thoughts, beliefs, family connections, dreams, fears, anxieties, stressors, physicality…
And yes, despite this, people still feel they can judge someone else. They believe they know what is best for that person. They feel they are best placed to offer advice or counsel on a matter they only know 10% about.
This isn’t a judgement on people who do this. We are all guilty of it. Often we are simply trying to feel better about ourselves. We believe we are trying to help that person.
But are we really? Are we really helping them or are we simply avoiding facing an aspect of ourselves that needs support?
As humans, we are all simply doing the best we can in any given moment. If we were soo intensely focused on living the life of our dreams, would we even have time to notice the actions of others?
We need to champion one another. To help raise one another up, not put them down through shame or judgement. Look to others for inspiration, not comparison.
Notice how much nicer your life becomes when you stop judging the actions of others and you start looking for how you can adopt some of their best practices / ideas.
We are here to learn from one another so why not start today.
